What Do Extraterrestrials Want From Us? Joy, Freedom, and Galactic Family

It is understandable to wonder whether a more advanced visitor would want something from us. Before imagining what we might owe, consider a different question: what makes a relationship worth having? Many of our most meaningful relationships begin with the wish to know one another and see each other flourish.

Could they simply want to see us grow?

A brother or sister can delight in your first attempt at something. They may already know how to do it, yet your discovery is still new and valuable. The joy comes from seeing you become more fully yourself.

That is the heart of what I mean by galactic family. In this spiritual vision, assistance would support our capacity to understand, create, and choose. It would leave room for our own discoveries, including different perspectives and different ways of living.

This analogy expresses the kind of contact I would welcome. It does not prove that extraterrestrials think like human relatives. Its value is that it gives us an ethical standard we can use: does the relationship make space for the life of each participant?

What could humanity offer an advanced civilisation?

Technological advancement would not make another civilisation's experiences interchangeable with ours. In an imagined exchange, people could offer stories, art, practical knowledge of Earth, and perspectives formed through very different lives.

There is also the ordinary, irreplaceable texture of living. A child laughs and the room changes. Someone sings with their whole attention. A person who has struggled feels peaceful for a moment. These experiences matter without needing to outperform anyone else's knowledge.

You do not need an extraordinary spiritual identity to have value. Your joy is worth noticing. Your passion can become something you share: a meal, a painting, a repair, a garden, a careful explanation. Contribution begins with what is alive and possible for you.

In the relationship I envision, both sides would bring something to the table. Receiving help would not erase our dignity, and offering help would not make another being superior in worth.

What does Bashar teach about passion and authenticity?

The Bashar material shared through Darryl Anka encourages people to express who they are and act on their excitement. I find those themes relevant because they bring the inquiry back to our lives: what are we actually choosing, creating, and learning? Bashar's Basic Principles

Read the complete five-step formula and my practical interpretation in Are extraterrestrials here to help us?. Following a passion can be explored as a practice without treating every feeling as an instruction or every coincidence as proof of extraterrestrial involvement.

Ask what your joy makes possible. Does it deepen your care? Does it allow other people their freedom? Can it become something generous and sustainable? Authenticity includes your relationship with the world your actions affect.

Abraham-Hicks: freedom and joy as a point of reflection

The Abraham-Hicks material is presented through Esther Hicks, with Abraham described by its official website as a collective nonphysical consciousness. This differs from Bashar's presentation as an extraterrestrial being. The accounts should not be collapsed into one verified source or one identical teaching.

The official synopsis states: “The basis of your life is freedom; the purpose of your life is joy.” About Abraham-Hicks

For this discussion, that sentence is an invitation to reflect on what freedom and joy mean in your own experience. A teaching should leave space for you to find your answer. Joy need not be constant excitement; it may feel like quiet ease, curiosity, connection, or the relief of being honest.

You can appreciate a thought without accepting every claim in the system around it. Allow yourself to explore, disagree, and move on when an approach does not speak to you.

Tyler Ellison and RYOKAH: another path to explore

For readers drawn to more esoteric material, Tyler Ellison is another name to explore. His presenter biography describes his work as channeling RYOKAH and combining mystical teachings with energy practices. That is a description of his work and its claims, not independent verification of its source. Tyler Ellison's presenter biography

I personally regard this as more advanced, esoteric material. That is my assessment of its style and complexity, not a ranking of anyone's spiritual worth. You do not need to understand a complicated cosmology to be compassionate, authentic, or at peace.

Whether you explore Bashar, Abraham-Hicks, Tyler Ellison, or another teacher, return to the same practical inquiry: what becomes clearer in your own life? What helps you act with greater care? Can you keep your openness and your judgment together?

Why is helping inseparable from free will?

Helping can be difficult because caring about someone does not tell us exactly what they need. We can offer something sincerely and still misunderstand. We may need to listen longer, change our approach, or accept that the person does not want what we are offering.

My spiritual belief is that we come into life to evolve while retaining absolute free will as souls. I express that belief here as a commitment to consent and dignity. It is not a scientifically established description of souls or a rule that removes the real constraints people face in everyday life.

In the relationship I imagine, benevolent guidance would respect refusal. Openness means a willingness to consider; it does not mean granting unlimited access, agreeing in advance, or accepting someone else's authority over your life.

When I say help should be validated by all, I mean that a collective offer should not be imposed on the people it affects. We do not know of an extraterrestrial mechanism requiring unanimous planetary consent. The ethical intention is to let each person have a voice and preserve their ability

to choose.

Could humans one day help other worlds?

As a speculative vision, yes: we can imagine humanity eventually sharing its experience with other communities of life. We cannot promise that such an encounter will occur. The value of the possibility is the question it asks us now: how would we want to help?

We might offer knowledge while remaining curious about what we could learn. We might support another society's capacity to find its own balance, peace, and authentic expression. We would need to respect its choices rather than make it a copy of ourselves.

That vision begins close to home. Listen to someone without taking over their decisions. Care for a place without claiming it exists only for you. Share what you love and allow others to share what they love. The future relationship you imagine can inform the relationships you practise today.

Questions about extraterrestrial motives

Do extraterrestrials want our worship or obedience?

We have no verified basis for assigning them those motives. In the benevolent relationship I envision, demands for worship or unquestioning obedience would conflict with the freedom and mutual respect that make the relationship worthwhile.

Is our joy valuable if another civilisation knows more?

In my ethical perspective, yes. Different levels of knowledge do not create different levels of basic worth. Your life, perspective, and capacity for joy matter without comparison.

Must I believe Bashar or another channel to explore these ideas?

No. You can examine the teachings, check their claims, and keep what helps you act with clarity and care. Your agreement with any teacher is not a condition of belonging.

Let the inquiry return to you

Listen to your heart, notice what you experience, and give yourself time to discern. The question is not only what an imagined visitor might want. It is what kind of relationship you want to create with life.

If you would like support with that inner inquiry, explore my masterclass and programmes. My invitation is to observe, integrate, and discover your own clarity, with room for your own conclusions.

A personal invitation from Mathieu Sun

For years, I, Mathieu Sun, have explored these teachings, especially Bashar's, with sustained observation and discernment. Truth is what matters most to me. I attend to the energy I experience in words, actions, and thinking, and ask how the message translates into everyday life. Joy and wisdom become meaningful to me through this continuing inquiry.

I seek the most positive energy and the most constructive, life-serving definitions I can find, while remaining faithful to truth. Definitions shape how we perceive an experience and the possibilities we see within it. A positive definition should help us see more clearly, with room to acknowledge difficulty and revise our understanding. My felt response is part of my observation; factual claims remain open to checking.

If you have questions, you are welcome to call me or send me a message, even simply to talk. You do not need to agree with me. I welcome a conversation directed towards truth, with openness, positive energy, and respect for your own discernment. Contact me through my website.